Keep It On The Hush.

You ever get those people that tell you to 'shhhh!' when you're speaking in the library, while people are trying to work? Or in the cinema, when your phone goes off, and you get those people that tell you to be quiet, because they are trying to hear the film? Yeah, I'm sure we've either been those people or have been the people told to be quiet! Well there is obviously a reason as to why we're told to keep quiet or we tell others to be quiet. We're trying to focus! Why? So that we can can complete our mission or task! How? Without any interruption, distraction or procrastination. Majority of the time, it's better to just keep it on the hush. If you're in the library and you tell someone to shush, because they're making all sorts of noise; you're telling them to shush, because obviously you can't concentrate on your work properly, and you're being pushed off track as to the target you wanted to achieve. Not just because you're annoyed and irritated by someone's constant chit-chat; the most important reason as to why you tell someone to be quiet in the library, is because you want to achieve something without distraction. The same goes with the cinema, obviously you paid money to watch this new film that's just come out, maybe some popcorn and a drink to enjoy it too, ONLY for someone to ruin the experience of watching this new movie, and that just results in a waste of money, because your film was interrupted by someone's phone. So therefore, in order to enjoy this new film, that person needs to keep quiet and turn his or her phone off immediately!

You're probably thinking why on earth am I talking about the cinema and the library?? It isn't about that, what I'm trying to do is get you to see my point about what I mean about 'keeping it on the hush', what impact it has, especially on things you want to accomplish in life! OK so we all, I'm hoping all have plans and ambitions that we want to accomplish in our lifetime; to make something of ourselves, to be someone that people remember; to be happy at what we do. So we have stages that we come across in life, that we must complete in order to achieve and complete our mission. It's like a Super Mario game, where we have obstacles and targets to reach to move on to the next level. In life, those obstacles could be people in your life. And this is where you need to keep it on the hush.

It's not everyone you come across in life; that smile at you, that laugh with you that have your best interests at heart. Some people do not want you to move on in life, they don't want you to be successful and be happy. My mum always told me, if I want to do something that's to do with my life, for my progression in life, I must pray about it, and not blurt it out to everyone that comes my way. Everyone has an agenda in life, and not everyone's agenda is good. For example, someone could be jealous of your progression in life and we all know jealousy isn't a pretty sight! If you, like say you wanted to travel, gain some experience for where you want to go in life, and you are sure of exactly where you want to go and when, go for it, don't delay. Do not go and then open your mouth and discuss every detail of every plan you make to every individual. I'm sure you will get that one person or even two, that will discourage you and say 'why not do this, why not do that', or they could be TOTALLY against the idea, simply because they envy your progression or could simply be a 'hater', and because you feel like these are your friends, you begin to listen to them and you will see how your plans begin to change, you begin to procrastinate, and in maybe one or two years, you see you're not where you aimed to be two years ago. It's because you allowed distraction and interruption to tag along, all because you never kept it to yourself.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you must keep malice on everything you do to your friends, I mean obviously, you sociaalise with your friends and you share stories and all of that, but it doesn't mean you must draw out a map of EVERY little bit of detail that you plan to tick off in life to get to your destination. Like I said, not everyone who smiles at you is your friend. Everyone has their own agenda. So, I'm basically saying, especially as this new year has arrived, and you're all going on about 'I'm gonna do this and that and then go here and blah blah blah', if it hasn't happened in the year before like you planned, ponder back and begin to figure out why. Was there any distraction, interruption and then procrastination? How can you now avoid this, to finally make it happen?

...Keep it on the hush. :)