Men Lie, Women Lie, EVERYBODY Lies!

The titles pretty self-explanatory. But I will expand don't worry. I watched a couple of Youtube videos (won't say which ones)about what women lie about and then there was a response as to what men lie about. It just made me laugh really, because it was like a competition about who lies the most and whose lies were the worst. There was truth in their lies however, but it's like both videos were trying to back up why they lie and therefore should be excused. In all honesty, whether you're a man or a woman...EVERYBODY LIES. Accept that fact. It's not a good fact, but it's real fact. I'm sure not ONE person on this earth has gone one day without lying. Like I keep saying, nobody is perfect. I don't want to encourage lying, but I'm not going to sit here, watch a couple youtube videos and try and side with one, because at the end of the day, BOTH have a point about what men and women lie about. At the end of the day, everybody has their own opinion. At the end of the day, everyone is going to have their own opinion about other people's opinions. That's just the way life goes. Why sit there and cuss everything you hear? Where does it get you? Everybody lies and everyone has a reason at least, as to why they lie. Reality.

There are different things that people lie about. Whether it'd be in their pictures, relationships, general excuses, or to do with personal things. Some lies are worse than others BUT all in all, a lie is a friggin' lie.
For women, the main thing that some men always complain about is 'MAKE-UP'. This is getting old now, because women still wear make-up regardless of some mens insults and accusations. And the same men that throw stones are the SAME ones you see chasing those very same women who wear make-up. It makes me laugh, because these guys that are saying make-up is a lie and blah blah blah, when women get plastic surgery on their bums or their boobs, these same men are praising them and drooling at the same time. Is plastic surgery not the same kind of lie as make-up? I'm just saying. HOWEVER, I really don't know why 'MAKE-UP' is being seen as a LIE. The Oxford Dictionary defines 'LIE' as 'an intentionally false statement', Dictionary.com defines it as 'a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood'. 'INTENT' keeps coming up, which means in this case; the person deliberately wanted to achieve this goal. To be frank, I don't believe women wear make-up on a day-to-day basis to deceive guys. When women wear make-up, the first thought in their head is not 'Yes, this ought to make them think I actually look like this' -_- NO. It is on you. If you generally believe that when you see a woman with make-up on her face, that that is how she looks like when she goes to bed and wakes up in the morning, when she goes gym, when she was born, when she goes swimming etc, then there is something wrong with you. Make-up is designed to minimise flaws, because like I said NOBODY IS PERFECT. Even the prettiest girls out there where make-up every now and then. AND if you see a girl and you automatically know she is wearing make-up, then she obviously hasn't deceived you...think about it. She didn't lie, unless you want her to carry a sign on her forehead saying 'I AM WEARING MAKE-UP' Therefore, I think certain guys should stop ranting and sweating over the fact that girls wear make-up, women have been wearing make-up for centuries, it's not a crime. At the end of the day, you'll still go on a date with a girl who is wearing make-up and if you can't get past the fact that they are and see them for who they really are, then you are small-minded. Simples.

Some women wear make-up. SO. Some men use steroids. SO. Can we move on with life?

While men are complaining about women, women are complaining about men. Men cheat, men lie blah blah blah. One thing we need to remember when trying to diss the other species, we must never generalise, because this causes an uproar and unnecessary back-lash. Some men cheat. Yes, this is true. Some men lie. Yes, this is true. HOWEVER, either wayyyy, if your man was to come up to you and say 'Yo, I'm seeing some next chick!' wouldn't you STILL be vex and cuss? If your man was to say to you instead of 'You look beautiful', say 'That dress makes you look fat', wouldn't you still be upset? What I'm trying to say is, him cheating and not telling you or him going up to you and telling you what he's doing or him blatantly lying and saying you look beautiful or him telling you the truth about how you look; either way you'll still be ranting and sweating over the lies or the truth! Either way we will still complain, but both genders lie and have reasons as to why we lie. But if it's not a lie, we humans will still find something to be upset about regardless. So why are we beating each other up about the things we do and say? Fair enough, the actions and words we say may be wrong, but no one can judge, because AGAIN, YOU are not perfect.

We may lie to AVOID or to HIDE INSECURITIES or to LOOK GOOD. It's called wanting to feel comfortable. BUT you live with those lies and the more you get comfortable, the more fake you become and no one will really know you. This is partly why this earth is corrupt. But the Bible says in John 8:7 'He who is without sin, should cast the first stone'. As far as I am concerned, I shouldn't be seeing any stones in the air.

Have your opinion, but don't turn it into a rock.